I have lived most of my life at the capital district of Finland. Especially as younger almost all adults in my environment were academical or academically inclined. So the ordinary skill level of academical people and their amount of common sense and of following civiliced values has been quite typical in my younger years' environment, also what I have read had often been inclined toward communicating to such people. On the other hand academical people often seek to communicate globally in their work like writings, and so one typical point of comparison is the style and skill level of the thin Chinese who tend to use terminology, so even though we are in another cultural domain, the skill level often isn't so high that it would use a completely different approach without a communication possibility with also the thin Chibese being aimed at. And so after reading my texts many are disappointed at the level of quality and trustworthiness of my younger years' social envuronment or of other writers. But I write just because I am unusually good at thinking with pictures of wholes, good quality and wisdom of life, wishing well for the world instead of lying and cunning, and so the number of my texts is some indicator of the amount of lack of such skills and valyes in my younger years' environment, also globally in the media.
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4th of March 2025 I had only one brother and no sisters. My brother was about two years and four months younger than I, and we did not get along at all. My brother Tuomo (Tuomo Tapio Hari) was almost always called by his nickname Tompo, and when I tamked with others who did not know him he was mostly mentioned as "my little brother", and our father had some weird beluef that after a few years Tuomo would be like me in skills and values, which of course he was not, since he was a different person. When my brother grew to secondary school age or si, he changed to be called Tuomo in school, and he would also have liked to be called jyst "brother" but such attempts caused him to strangely claim that he was my older brother, changing style to physically threatening, claiming that he had somehow superwised my upbringing. I was not claiming such of him. But it seems tgat there is a huge difference in veing tge oldest child or the younger child of the same family, since tge oldest child gets checked by parents, if it can be that one already kniws such and such skills, while the younger sibling much much more often goes unchecked in tge quality of skills and values, parents kibd of suppising that in the same age he would have same skill levels, even though his likibgs and motication were of a different type. So also of adults it is good to know of such differencies existing, even though it may have often happened that adults lue of who was the oldest or younger child egc.
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