Each one has a different view of skills etc

 Some day last week I on some mental side talked momentarily with someone who had read my book A Sorcerer, and it was as if she knew it well, but even though she appeared inclined toward rational style life, she did not seem interested in the skills taught in the book, so her version of such was very far from mine. Yet my experience is that many social relations oriented people refer to the more rationally oriented in getting a kind of schooled view, so even those go much further from the original. And these are who are claimed to be of roughly the same type and same skills as the writer, while others left more far away in views, which seems that either they caught nothing of the communication or then there was some similarity, for example a hobby like interest in the subjects shared with the writer, which brought the clmmunication. So even though one can tell of skills, for example to look detailedly at some points, the level of actually living one's life is very different. It does not get shared by just reading and learning. And so a writer is not like the readers in such. Yet my father seemed somehow understand some things in the shared daily lufe when I was young, so that some guess tgat my near relatives or other social relations from my youth woukd have had largely the same skills and the same wisdom of life as I, so that they would have been my forefigures or sources of info in my skills, views, values, etc, maybe some who woukd fit as replacements if I did not know of something, and so I have lost many of my own places in the world, especially in social life and as a source of info, even though they do not share the same skills, valyes, things aimed at, areas of lufe paid attention to and cared for, and even though in my childhood family my father seemed to understand my thoughrs best and he said tgat of course not at all as well as if those were written down. So I do not quite understand why near by people or relatives would be fit to just the same kibd of tasks, even very roughly like at least something of such in a common sense like basic ways at least.