Lähellä vai etäällä

 " Tyypillisesti, jos joku tuntee toisen henkilön kovin hyvin, niin hän ei yleensä pyri kovkn lähelle, vaan on lähinnä kyllästynyt. Jos taas henkilö vai mikä lue on ihan outo, niin siitä toinen yleensä etsii lisöä havaintoja, jos aihe häntä kiinnostaa tai jos se ympäristössä täytyy varmuuden vuoksi suunnilleen tietää. Ihmiset yleensä pyrkivät hyvin lähelle henkilöitä, joilla on hyviä heille itselleen edullisia piirteitä jouta heillä itsellään ei ole yhtään tai lähes ollenkaan, ja muuten yleensä omasta puokestaan pysyisivät etäämpänä, paitsi tappamus- tai vahingoittamustarkoituksessa lähelle tai keskivertoetäisyydelle, jos esim juttuseura on hyväksi muttei sen lähempi. Niin liian lähelle pyrkivä ei sovi määräilemään. Vrt. liian etäisyyden vuoksi huonosti näkevä ottaa luettavan paperin katsottavaksi, kun taas jo tiedotteesta perillö oleva huitaisisi sen pois. "

Eli kovin iilimatomaisesti lähelle pyrkivä joko viihtyy, tai tahtomattaan joutuu lähelle esim hyötymistarkoituksessa tai toisten laittamana, tai on hyökkäystarkoitujsessa hiipivä tai pihalla kaikesta kuin ufo, esim onko eroa nurmikln, heinänkirren, talon, eläimen, ihmisen, eri ilmastojen ha eri henkilöuden välillä? Niinpä useaa lähelle pyrkivää ei pitäisi korvata yhdellä caan noilta henkilöiltä kai puuttuu elämänkojemusta eikä sitä samaan kummaan tilanteeseen aina joutuminen selvennä, jollei ko henkilö ole hyvissä väkeissä, omaa samaistumisryhmää ihan käytännössäkkn ja taitavampi yms. 

I do not have forefigures

 My only forefigure has usually been wild animals and the wild nature. In addition sometimes some pets. From humans I have mostly tried to learn skills, get some idea of how I could well live my own life. But mostly all influences from other humans are harmful to me in some ways, make me feel ill, cause a lack of luck, social problems, etc, are mostly disastrous for my life and for my skills and health and happiness. On the other hand my own wisdom of life and my own choices suit typically me very well. I do not have any close social relationships since other people's effects on my life are typically too harmful, especially those of my childhood social environment, for example of my parents and of my brother. (Except that rationality and civiliced values is good to have.) So I just try to get space to live an adult life on my own, without influencies from others. I am wise, so I do not benefit from people leaning on the care professions, etc. I have also unusually good thinking ability. The most forefigure like humans for me are at least nowadays ( Orthodox Christian priests and monks, plus ) the service professionals' workers' union PAM. But most of all I would like to live my own life in my own ways, quite much like is the common sense like view of how to fit into the society in a way that is good for the world too. 

The central themes of my books are quite near summer cottage like life or the wilderness guide course

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So I would classify the texts as: 

* Of tale like subjects: skills of Christmas gnomes/elves, and A Sorcerer, 1.-3. 

* Liked books of nice subjects: Magnifient views and nice to live in, Wonderful miracle like beings, and maybe Of walking in beauty.

* Books of weathers and outdoors: Living with the four seasons, roughly the same in Finnish, Weather skills for all climates, transmations of poetry of Eino Leino & of Kalevala's beginning, Singing experience of life and healthy natural ages old ways of living.

* Some people's work like subjects: Work and feelings, healing advices and solving environmental problems.

* The later books in the Christmas gnones/elves skills subject are like having written because some want to hear my view of that subject, but without so much yo say. 

4th of October 2024   The later books&booklets in the Christmas gnome/elf skills subject feel like I cannot carry them well. Those are as if written because some wanted to read my view of those things too, but somehow that is too far from of what I knew a lot or what I can carry well in life. Maybe it is partly a question of those being just collections of texts, without me having anything more to say in the subjects. I do not feel like it being a place suited to me to be some central person in such subjects. 

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About the skill levels and values of my environment

 I have lived most of my life at the capital district of Finland. Especially as younger almost all adults in my environment were academical or academically inclined. So the ordinary skill level of academical people and their amount of common sense and of following civiliced values has been quite typical in my younger years' environment, also what I have read had often been inclined toward communicating to such people. On the other hand academical people often seek to communicate globally in their work like writings, and so one typical point of comparison is the style and skill level of the thin Chinese who tend to use terminology, so even though we are in another cultural domain, the skill level often isn't so high that it would use a completely different approach without a communication possibility with also the thin Chibese being aimed at. And so after reading my texts many are disappointed at the level of quality and trustworthiness of my younger years' social envuronment or of other writers. But I write just because I am unusually good at thinking with pictures of wholes, good quality and wisdom of life, wishing well for the world instead of lying and cunning, and so the number of my texts is some indicator of the amount of lack of such skills and valyes in my younger years' environment, also globally in the media. 

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4th of March 2025   I had only one brother and no sisters. My brother was about two years and four months younger than I, and we did not get along at all. My brother Tuomo (Tuomo Tapio Hari) was almost always called by his nickname Tompo, and when I tamked with others who did not know him he was mostly mentioned as "my little brother", and our father had some weird beluef that after a few years Tuomo would be like me in skills and values, which of course he was not, since he was a different person. When my brother grew to secondary school age or si, he changed to be called Tuomo in school, and he would also have liked to be called jyst "brother" but such attempts caused him to strangely claim that he was my older brother, changing style to physically threatening, claiming that he had somehow superwised my upbringing. I was not claiming such of him. But it seems tgat there is a huge difference in veing tge oldest child or the younger child of the same family, since tge oldest child gets checked by parents, if it can be that one already kniws such and such skills, while the younger sibling much much more often goes unchecked in tge quality of skills and values, parents kibd of suppising that in the same age he would have same skill levels, even though his likibgs and motication were of a different type. So also of adults it is good to know of such differencies existing, even though it may have often happened that adults lue of who was the oldest or younger child egc.